What Defines A Women

"Don't be a women that needs a man, be a women that a man a needs" ~ Unknown
What truly define a women? I see a lot of girl that think they all need a guy to define them. But i say that that's is not true at all. My Grandmother had 6 kids by the time she was 25 and all were made with the same man. The only problem is that he would hit her constantly, so she finally had enough and  left him. She left him at 26. After that she has never been married. So when i see females that NEED a man so desperately, it infuriates me. A guy should never define who you  are and you should never let them think that they do.